The Short Version
The evidence does not show that autism’s diagnostic literature commonly describes this specific pattern. Core DSM-5 and ICD-11 materials focus on social-communication differences, restricted or repetitive behaviors, and distress from change or overload, not frequent devastation after accidentally breaking social rules. Some broader clinical writing discusses moral distress or rule-violation anguish in autistic people, but that is not the same as a diagnostic description and does not establish that this reaction is frequent.